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Hi Reader! They’re dialed in to their psychology. The (often unconscious) beliefs driving their behavior. Most women who feel a gap between where they are and where they want to be, fall into two camps: Procrastination I was both. Why? Because of how we’re beautifully created! We're not biologically wired to act today for a better—but uncertain—future. So we delay… until the pain of staying the same outweighs the pain of change. And we also believe we’re the exception ... While we are unique—it's how humans thrive in a diverse group. What we are not, is the exception to proven biological mechanisms (muscle, metabolism, hormones, or bone health) in the body that can build and can also break. Take notice of the unconscious dialogue running in the background. When we truly pay attention and tune it, it's an all out negotiation: “I’ll work out when this project is done.” “My family has osteoporosis—I’ll probably deal with it too.” “My situation is different from women with more time or money.” “I’ll wait until this injury fully goes away.” “It’s not that bad… I’ll deal with it.” You get it. Try this today: Notice when the thought comes up: “I should take action to get stronger—and finally recover the way my body needs.” Then notice the very next thought ... Is it: “Later” “It’s not that bad” “I don’t have time” “I’m too tired” Don’t judge it. Just notice it. Tomorrow—shorten the gap between the thought and the action. Don’t give yourself time to negotiate. Make the action ridiculously small so it feels doable forever. Rinse and repeat daily. Within a week, you’ll notice: less mental noise eating up your bandwidth more showing up for you a little less bloat, a little more energy Freedom happens when you remove constant self-negotiation. And this is the gap most programs miss: knowing → doing This is what we bridge in our community. A simple system you learn once, I teach you the step by step system in the correct order, and your body pays you back in dividends for life. No more start → stop → regain cycles draining your time, energy, and money. No starving. No living in the gym. If you’re ready to invest in efficiency and enjoy progress that happens faster and lasts forever, 2 spots opened for concierge 1:1 coaching. We start Thursday May 7. 20% off through May 6 Cheers to thriving together, Alyssa P.S. While scrolling and saving recipes feels productive, it's not the same as execution. Still, it's fun ...and life is meant to be fun. Access recipes and our free community by clicking here. |
Online Health Coach for Women. Get stronger and leaner with evidence based nutrition, strength training and nervous system regulation. Most importantly, I help you bridge the gap between "knowing" and actually "doing" by leveraging: habit formation, accountability and community.
Hi Fabulous Friends! Just in time for the hectic holidays, when workouts and muscle-building goals are the first to get sacrificed. (Thanks, consumer culture! And yes, I'm guilty too. 😂) We start the Minimal Dose Muscle Method TOMORROW! What if you used the next 30 days to learn how to get in a high quality strength session in 10 minutes, even when life isn’t cooperating? So when January rolls around, and life gets a little calmer (lol yeah right), progress feels easier and goes faster. And...
Hi Reader!I want to give you the cliff notes of what took me over 20 years to learn through trial and error. But first, a perspective for every busy woman joining the challenge—or anyone waiting for life to calm down before starting: What if starting when life is messy gives you an advantage when things finally settle down? If you already joined the challenge or still trying to decide, Watch the underleveraged secret here (3 min video) Now a quick story about me ...at the ripe old age of 14,...
Hi Reader! Why does getting healthier feel more complicated than ever?I’ve got two things for you today that might change how you think about that. TL;DR (Too Long; Didn’t Read 😆): the quick version for my busy ladies: Stop relying on motivation +discipline. Build a system that works when life gets messy. I’m sharing the framework we use inside our Strong Women community—the one helping women reach their goals and say, “I know how to keep doing this for life.” We made it into HMSA’s Island...