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Hi Reader! I grew up reading Seventeen, Bop, and Teen Vogue. Somewhere along the way, I became convinced of a narrative: that in order to feel attractive and accepted, my body needed to look a certain way. So in college, while teaching step aerobics, I’d literally calculate calories burned after every class. Because my brain genuinely believed I could "earn" food with exercise. Then I found weight lifting. In the late 90s and early 2000s, the women building muscle were usually the ones trying to get on stage for a bodybuilding. I worked at a gym during summers home from college, so I was surrounded by gym rats, boiled chicken and broccoli, protein powders and Hydroxycut, folks disappearing into the back to inject hormones, facial acne and "back-ne", and endless opinions about whether women should lift heavy and build visible muscle. I remember learning how to lift weights. My muscles responded well. I remember the embarrassment too. The comments about looking “manly” and feeling self-conscious about my “bulky” shoulders and arms ... then I spent years trying to only build my glutes because that felt more acceptable. A decade went by. I got married, had kids, and took a looooong break from the gym. By the time we hit our late 30s and 40s, a lot of us were trying to “fix” bodies that were not only tired of being forced, they were starting to revolt. The lifting sessions I once looked forward to started feeling like drudgery. Then one of my clients reported that committing to 10-minute workouts was what finally helped her stay uber consistent. Erratic hour-long workouts turned into near-daily consistency, plus progress in her push-ups—without the wrist pain. Jackpot! The issue for many women isn’t laziness. It’s friction. It’s the sneaky subconscious belief that diet and training have to feel extreme to count. Our community teaches women how to lower the friction: Making each rep count and halting leaked time/energy =shorter workouts achieving visible results because consistency is queen. Clothes start buttoning again without endless cardio. Overdosing on cardio was creating diminishing returns all along (bummer). I still love the pump, the sweat, and the dopamine high of cardio… we just stopped using it to try to earn our food/physique. For the woman who’s ready to invest once into a system that pays you back for life in muscle, hormone, brain, and physique dividends: Or, snag the 4-week self-paced Muscle Builder Challenge with video demos, 5 bite-sized lessons, and real-time coaching support—designed to make muscle definition count and stick—for $55 here. Reply to this email and tell me something about you! I'd love to hear more about what specific things would be helpful for you. Cheers to thriving together, |
Online Health Coach for Women. Get stronger and leaner with evidence based nutrition, strength training and nervous system regulation. Most importantly, I help you bridge the gap between "knowing" and actually "doing" by leveraging: habit formation, accountability and community.
Hi Fabulous Friends! Just in time for the hectic holidays, when workouts and muscle-building goals are the first to get sacrificed. (Thanks, consumer culture! And yes, I'm guilty too. 😂) We start the Minimal Dose Muscle Method TOMORROW! What if you used the next 30 days to learn how to get in a high quality strength session in 10 minutes, even when life isn’t cooperating? So when January rolls around, and life gets a little calmer (lol yeah right), progress feels easier and goes faster. And...
Hi Reader!I want to give you the cliff notes of what took me over 20 years to learn through trial and error. But first, a perspective for every busy woman joining the challenge—or anyone waiting for life to calm down before starting: What if starting when life is messy gives you an advantage when things finally settle down? If you already joined the challenge or still trying to decide, Watch the underleveraged secret here (3 min video) Now a quick story about me ...at the ripe old age of 14,...
Hi Reader! Why does getting healthier feel more complicated than ever?I’ve got two things for you today that might change how you think about that. TL;DR (Too Long; Didn’t Read 😆): the quick version for my busy ladies: Stop relying on motivation +discipline. Build a system that works when life gets messy. I’m sharing the framework we use inside our Strong Women community—the one helping women reach their goals and say, “I know how to keep doing this for life.” We made it into HMSA’s Island...