Why mentally strong athletes get better—and most adults quit


Hi Fabulous Friends!!

The same mindset we try to teach the kids about becoming mentally strong athletes

is the exact same mindset required to get healthier, stronger, and leaner as adults.

Yet it’s almost completely overlooked.

That’s why so many well-intentioned people are getting sicker instead of stronger
not because they’re lazy or undisciplined, but because they’re missing the framework.


In sports, mistakes aren’t failures—they’re crucial data.

They reveal the constraint.

After Kobe Bryant airballed four shots in a playoff loss, he didn’t spiral.
He diagnosed the issue: strength.
So he fixed it—systematically—before the next season.

Mistake → adjustment → improvement.

In health, we’re taught the opposite.

When habits feel hard—sleep, food, lifting—we internalize the friction:
“I’m bad at this.”
“I’m weak.”
“I don’t have motivation.”

So we either quit…
or go full shotgun mode and try everything at once.

But healthy habits are skills, not personality traits.

You don’t quit a sport because your first attempts were messy.
You identify the mistake—and train it.


What if this time you treated your health like an athlete?

Instead of quitting, you addressed the actual constraint:

  • low energy
  • feeling deprived
  • confusing motivation with character

One adjustment at a time.
One rep after another.

That’s how progress starts to compound exponentially.


For years, I didn’t need more effort—I needed a better system.

Once I addressed my mistakes (relationship with food; relationship with self; knowledge of physiology, biology and psychology), my health trajectory improved faster!
I did a lot of the work and invested the money for you—and distilled it into simple, repeatable systems.

That’s why I’m hosting a free 10-day challenge starting Jan 19.

It’s practical.
It’s doable.
And it teaches you how to use friction the way mentally strong athletes do—as leverage.

Less bloat.
Better clothing fit.
Introductory systems you can run on autopilot—for life.

Cheers to thriving together,

Alyssa

P.S. I have 3 more spots left for a Strength + Recovery workshop on January 31.
Details here: Jan 31 strength + recovery workshop.png

Aloha Alyssa Fit

Online Health Coach for Women. Get stronger and leaner with evidence based nutrition, strength training and nervous system regulation. Most importantly, I help you bridge the gap between "knowing" and actually "doing" by leveraging: habit formation, accountability and community.

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